“To go into a urologist office, you walk in with all this shame and inhibition,” Brass lamented. That discomfort can spread to gay patients. They can’t even breathe the words ‘anal sex.’ Talking to a man about it is just impossible.” 'If you bring another man, they don’t know what to do. “If you’re gay and you go to a urologist who hasn’t dealt with gay men, they’ll tell you, ‘Bring your wife with you,’' he said. That’s true in the doctor’s office, too, Brass added.
